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Monday, April 24, 2006

R.I.P Chibi !

Friday afternoon April 21 a baby albino squirrel fell from a tree in our yard on to our driveway!

Clearly he was ill and not thriving, we don't know if that was true before his fall or if it was a result of his fall.

He remained in one spot on our driveway for so long, that we came out to see him , and he did not run away. In fact, at first we thought he was unable to walk.

He allowed the children and a neighbor boy to pet him. The kids wanted to bring him in the house and raise him as a pet. But I told them squirrels need to remain outside, in part because it's true, and in part, secretly, because I was afraid he'd survive and then we'd have a dependent squirrel living in my house. I'm really glad that I occasionally mentioned that this little squirrel was very ill and would probably not live long.

We put a shallow box outside and propped the fold-up lid pieces as a partial roof, and cut a section of a wall out so he could easily come and go. The children enjoyed feeding him bits of Ritz crackers and a few Cheerios. He allowed my daughter to pick him up off the driveway and place him in his box, on our lawn, away from the cars.

My 12 year old daughter named him Chibi, after the Japanese style of animation in which adult characters are temporarily drawn as an emotional large-headed child.

When we woke up on Saturday morning, we found that Chibi had crawled out and had curled up a few feet away on the grass. He was breathing shallowly and kind of twitching. But later that day he dragged himself right back to the same section of our driveway where he had originally fallen the day before!

His healthy, grey brothers and sisters climbed down the tree on Saturday afternoon. They explored the lawn, scratched around looking for food the way a healthy squirrel should, and were so naive they were willing to walk right up to our feet! But Chibi just stayed on the concrete drive way a few yards away from all the action, and stared straight ahead. He never tried to hunt for food.

A neighbor lady walked by and showed us we could move him carefully by scooping him up in her umbrella, and deposting him back in his box!

That afternoon we took the children to a shopping mall, and to Saturday evening Church, because my husband wasn't going to be able to go to church on Sunday, due to his work schedule. The children talked about Chibi the whole time and couldn't wait to get back to him and feed him more crackers and part of a banana.

At about 7:30 that night, my daughter took her overnight friend to check on him and they both saw him in his box . At about 8:30 another guest arrived but we couldn't find Chibi, he had wandered out again!

The next morning we couldn't find Chibi anywhere. The children were convinced that Chibi was now strong enough to climb back up the tree or wander in to a neighbor's yard . They talked about him all morning and kept going back outside to look for him again. But I came out by myself to find him. I knew he was never well enought to climb or to just run away. I spotted a batch of bright white beneath a very low-lying shrub in our front yard, and found Chibi's body all curled up under there, not breathing. My husband pulled it out with a shovel and we kept trying to jostle him, but he was just limp. We would have liked to bury him, but you can't buy animals in your yard. Other animals will try to dig them up. We had to place him in a plastic bag, and put him in a our dumpster.

My daughter was brave when I told her later. But I personally keep looking out the window, looking for Chibi. His siblings were playing in a neighbor's tree yesterday afternoon. We all miss Chibi.

Saturday, April 22, 2006

My friend Mary sent me this. If half this list is true, then help, I'm a goth, too!

This is a newsletter that St. Mary's church in Colorado Springs sent out this week:

If Your Child is a Gothic, Reform Through the Lord!Listed below are some warning signs to indicate if your child may have gone astray from the Lord. Gothic (or goth) is a very obscure and often dangerous culture that young teenagers are prone to participating in.

The gothic culture leads young, susceptible minds into an imagined world of evil, darkness, and violence. Please seek immediate attention through counselling, prayer, and parental guidance to rid your child of Satan's temptations if five or more of the following are applicable to your child:

-Frequently wears black clothing.

-Wears band and/or rock t-shirts.

-Wears excessive black eye makeup, lipstick or nailpolish.

-Wears any odd, silver jewelry or symbols. Some of these include: reversed crosses, pentagrams, pentacles, ankhs or various otherSatanic worshipping symbols.-Shows an interest in piercings or tattoos.

-Listens to gothic or any other anti-social genres of music. (Marilyn Manson claims to be the anti-Christ, and publicly speaks against the Lord. Please discard any such albums IMMEDIATELY.)

-Associates with other people that dress, act or speak eccentrically.

-Shows a declining interest in wholesome activities, such as: the Bible, prayer, church or sports.

-Shows an increasing interest in death, vampires, magic, the occult, witchcraft or anything else that involves Satan.

-Takes drugs.-Drinks alcohol.-Is suicidal and/or depressed.

-Cuts, burns or partakes in any other method of self-mutilation. (This is a Satanic ritual that uses pain to detract from the light of God and His love. Please seek immediate attention for this at your local mental health center.)

-Complains of boredom.

-Sleeps too excessively or too little.

-Is excessively awake during the night.-Dislikes sunlight or any other form of light. (This pertains to vampires promoting the idea that His light is of no use.)

-Demands an unusual amount of privacy.

-Spends large amounts of time alone.

-Requests time alone and quietness. (This is so that your child may speak to evil sprits throughmeditation.)

-Insists on spending time with friends while unaccompanied by an adult

.-Disregards authority figures; teachers, priests, nuns and elders are but a few examples of this.

-Misbehaves at school.

-Misbehaves at home.

-Eats goth-related foods. Count Dracula cereal is an example of this.

-Drinks blood or expresses an interest in drinking blood.(Vampires believe this is how to attain Satan. This act is verydangerous and should be stopped immediately.)

-Watches cable television or any other corrupted media sources. (Ask your local church for proper programs that yourchild may watch.)

-Plays videos games that contains violence or are of a role-playing nature.

-Uses the internet excessively and frequently makes time for the computer.-Makes Satanic symbols and/or violently shakes head to music.

-Dances to music in a provocative or sexual manner.

-Expresses an interest in sex.

-Masturbates

-Is homosexual and/or bisexual.

-Pursues dangerous cult religions. Such include: Satanism, Scientology, Philosophy, Paganism, Wicca, Hinduism and Buddhism.

-Wears pins, stickers or anything else that contains these various phrases: "I'm so gothic, I'm dead", "woe is me", "I'm a goth".

-Claims to be a goth.

If five or more of these apply to your child, please intervene immediately. The gothic culture is dangerous and Satan thrives within it. If any of these problems persist, enlist your child into your local mental health center.

~St. Mary's Catholic Church

Thursday, April 06, 2006

Two weeks ago, I took March 22, 23, and 24 off to spend Wed through Friday of my kids Spring Break at home with them. We didn't really go anywhere except the beautiful downtown St Paul public library. It was great to just spend quiet time at home with the kids.

Saturday morning I went to my Norwegian language class at Mindekirken. This quarter we lost two long-time class members, but gained a new one, so there are 3 of us in my class now.

Sunday I flew to Daytona Beach Florida! Sounds glamorous, but I really was there to spend 5 days learning a new anesthesia software product. The two people assigned to teach it to me were well aware that they were training their replacement, so they were not highly motivated to train me. I spent more time in "my" cube, temporarily assigned to me while its usual inhabitant was on a week of vacation, trying to look busy, than I spent listening in on customers' phone calls or having them take time out to show me anything. They kept saying they were "too busy." The hotel was very nice though. I had a huge bed to myself, took a lot of hot baths, and watched a one hour tv special about the Mall of America back home in Minnesota. The weather was warmer than in Minnesota in late March, but it didn’t look to me like it does on MTV Spring Break. I wore my jacket a lot. And my two trips to the ocean side, during my evenings off weren't really impressive. I found the tide very high, all the way up to the buildings by then. The other 3 nights I took walks closer to my hotel, 7 miles from the ocean, and came back and watched tv. I missed my kids very bad, but I did get a lot of rest in the evenings!

Friday night I flew back. My husband and kids picked me up at the airport. I was SO HAPPY to see them. It was our 16th wedding anniverary, and I got to spend about 2 minutes of it with my own husband before it turned midnight!

Saturday, Norwegian class at Mindekirken again, then we did our best to clean up the house for the next 2 days.

Monday morning I got to go to the Amtrak station and pick up my best friend from high school and her other friend who came with her! It was so great to have them both over, and of course I took those days off from work, I had scheduled them a long time ago. We slept in. My kids went to school on the school bus. We went shopping along Grand Avenue in St Paul and had lunch at Bread and Chocolate. We went to the Mill Museum in downtown Minneapolis. Their visit was too short. My husband says when I drove them back to the train station, our 7 year old son cried, as he was getting ready for school. He loved having them over.

Wednesday morning (yesterday) I drove them back to Amtrak so they could continue their trip to visit some other people in Wisconsin, and for the first time in 2 weeks, I drove back to the office and went back to work.

That night (last night) we got our taxes done, prepared to hear that we would owe a lot of money, because of all the stocks we cashed out last year. Instead we found out we are getting a very nice refund. We came back home and took our kids out for ice cream. 2006 has been a pretty good year, so far!